Thursday, June 19, 2008

Cheers to Nolan Ryan Ryan!


I was sad to hear that Kathy had to have Nolan Ryan euthanized. We all know how hard it is to lose a pet, Kathy--this is to say "we are here for you"! It brings to mind some of the other family pets we have loved and lost. Does anyone remember Skippy? My recollection is that he was a raggedy mutt that often chased cars and bicycles down Dennison Road. I do not remember what happened to him in the end. There's Longfellow and Cecelia; Benny; Harry. For the life of me I cannot remember the names of Chris' dogs besides Weezy. And Judy's Fenway. Brain cramp on those names but here's to those 4 legged creatures we have loved and lost. They were good friends. This is Sweeney, Dallas Cowboy and Nolan Ryan. Cheers.
PS: Ivan and Max were the dogs I was trying to remember (thanks Chris) and Judy's Cassie--I have probably not spelled it right.

Monday, June 2, 2008

Gammy Nevins


For some reason, Gammy Nevins has been on my mind. Mom's grandmother died on New Year's Day 1960 so I doubt any of you have any memories of her since we were all so young. I have never been able to find her with her dad, Civil War soldier Grampie Brown, and that has always bothered me. Finally it occured to me that perhaps they didn't spend that much time together. So, here's a story for you. Much of it is conjecture based on half-educated guessing and some of it is based in fact. Who knows??


Caroline's father was William S. Brown (Nanny always called him "Grampie Brown" so I do too). Grampie Brown came to the United States from England in 1845 as a very young boy. He wasn't quite 2 years old yet when his family arrived. Two of his younger siblings were born in the Albany area before the family found its way to Buffalo New York. William W. Brown (Dad) was a blacksmith. I believe he may have worked as a blacksmith along the Erie Canal from Albany to Buffalo since the trip seemed to take at least 3 years, perhaps a bit longer. The family settled in Buffalo and basically remained there.


Just about a year after Grampie Brown returned from his Civil War service, he married Mary Burrows in Buffalo. At this time, Grampie Brown may have been a teamster (there you go, Chris!) but in later years he also worked at the lumber yard and as a guard at the Penitentiary.


Caroline S. Brown was born Oct 12 1873, after about 6 years of marriage. She was apparently the only child of William and Mary Brown. This was a bit unusual for the time but I suspect that her mother Mary may not have been terribly healthy. The "S" middle initial for William and for Caroline in unclear in origin. Carrie, as she was called, might have been Caroline Summer(s) Brown. It was during this time period that I believe Grampie Brown worked in the lumber yards. He was not healthy either as he suffered from catarrh (as far as I can tell, this is a very severe stuffy nose/post nasal drip condition); rheumatism and "disease of heart and digestive organs".


In September of 1879, Carrie's grandfather William W. the blacksmith dies. She is about 6 years old but I imagine the families were close. Just a few months later, in April 1880, her mother dies of "dropsy" (heart failure) in her early 40s. Grampie Brown is now left a widow with a young child and his father gone.


Grampie may have had no choice but to have young Carrie live in an orphanage. The situation at the Buffalo Protestant Orphan Asylum was rather grim for the 6 year old Carrie Brown in residence in 1880. Children such as Carrie may have been placed there by family members who agreed to pay a stipend for care. There was serious overcrowding and sanitary conditions were abysmal. The playground was a small patch covered in gravel. Education was, however, provided. Some children were placed with other families.


Grampie Brown remarried in 1882 but it is unclear if Carrie returned to his home. By 1900 when she was about 27 years old, Carrie Brown was a servant in a home in Ellicottville. Mom always said Gammy Nevins "never worked a day in her life", but I think she may have worked pretty hard in the years before she met and married Henry Nevins. Henry was a lawyer in Ellicottville at this time and they married in 1901. Isn't it funny how what goes around, comes around--with Dad working in Ellicottville some 70 years later?


I've been told that Gammy Nevins had an electric car, which must have been kind of unusual "back in the day". Nanny told me that her mother would take to her bed when she didn't fee like company and that her dad would take all seven children on Sunday afternoon picnics so she could rest. Gammy only took responsibility for the children's health. Every other decision was in the "ask you father" category.


This picture may have been taken in the early 1920s--maybe about 1922, making Carrie almost 50. She looks older, don't you think? Maybe about your age Kathy?? Amazing how bearing and raising seven children will age your looks.

Monday, May 26, 2008

Our Military Past


Memorial Day 2008. Memorial Day originated shortly after the US Civil War to honor those who have died in service to the country. It used to be called Decoration Day because graves were decorated to recognize these soldiers.


We have no direct ancestors who died in the service. Grampie Brown, Nanny Flynn's grandfather, served in the Civil War and claimed a pension based on disability he acquired as a result. But he did not die as a direct result -- he died in 1917 in Buffalo where he spent most of his life. Paula and I were lucky enough to find his grave in the Forest Lawn Cemetery in Buffalo. Grampie, William Brown, was born in England and came to the United States in 1845 when he was almost 2. I believe the family moved from Albany to Buffalo on the Erie Canal. William Sr was a blacksmith and it seems logical he could have used his skills on the Canal.


Of course, Dad served in World War II and the Korean War. These are his separation papers describing his history of service. He was very young, as are our service men and women today. It amazes me.


I think Memorial Day has evolved into a recognition of all miltary personnel, so we have Grampie Brown, Uncle Tim and Dad that I am aware of to honor this Memorial Day 2008.

Friday, May 16, 2008


So, I'm thinking about flowers. Yes, flowers. Mom loved her violets. Does anyone else recall that she wanted to grow orchids? Can't imagine that--I think they are really delicate and require very particular care. But somehow I could see Mom in a greenhouse.


Dad and his garden with the zinnias and marigolds. I still really like both of those. They look so colorful. They appear to be sturdy but are actually kind of delicate too. Dad also grew gladiolas. I can remember seeing glads sold on the side of the road in Florida--other places too of course, but I connect them with Florida. Some people don't really like them because they consider them funeral flowers. I never thought of them that way. I have grown them too but not lately. I loved the blooms but hated seeing them all slumped over all the time and I could never get the bulbs to stay healthy over the winter.


Dad also like to have his roses. I never never have had good luck with roses. Mostly because I can't pay enough attention to them.

Paula reminded me today to think about wildflowers too. I recall Devil's Paintbrushes and Queen Anne's Lace (did you know Queen Anne's Lace is an ancestor to the carrot??). Paula also mentioned Jack in the Pulpits from the woods--these are now protected I think because they are endangered. I have always loved the white flowering shrubs that were in front of the house. I'm trying to grow one here now but it isn't taking off too well just yet. Weren't there alot of them in front of that Dennison Road house?

Lilacs always remind me of Mary Jane--well, the smell of lilacs makes me thing of Mary Jane. Probably because they bloom in May.


Spring flowers are my favorite--especially tulips. One of these days, I'll be able to take good care of a large garden of tulips and spring flowers.


See, there 's quite a bit to recall about flowers--you didn't think so, did you? How about you? What do you have to say about flowers in your life?

Sunday, May 4, 2008


First of all, Happy Birthday Matthew! I hope you had a great day.


Mother's Day, of course, makes me think of Mom. One of the things I think about with Mom is how in the world she was able to raise all 6 of us. They must have had to stretch Dad's paychecks pretty far although as a child, I never felt like we struggled or were poor or deprived.


As I think about my childhood now, I realize there were some ways Mom was obviously trying to save money and one place was with meals. They were pretty economical. Meatloaf was not something she did well. I never realized there was any other way to have meatloaf than that dark brick we were presented with. Meatloaf CAN be juicy, even tasty, when done differently than with Mom's recipe. Same thing with pork chops. I was a full adult before I realized they didn't have to resemble cardboard in texture and taste.


One of my favorite meals was tuna fish and french fries. This was a Friday meal since we observed the Catholic tradition at the time. I also liked pork and sauerkraut, but that was a dangerous choice with children in the house! Dad's b-b-q chicken tasted pretty good too. I liked to have roast pork for birthday dinner.


Going to Foits for fish fry was a treat--must have been a pretty good deal in order for them to take us all there somewhat regularly. That's the only restaurant meal I remember except for where we might go with Nanny and Weenie.


So, I appreciate never feeling seriously deprived when I know it must have been very tough. What did you appreciate Mom for?

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Cousin Eileen Ryan

Eileen's death is really hitting me hard. I don't have very clear memories of the girls so that's probably not the reason--it does sound as though she had been ill for a while. I feel for the family. Her obituary seems to indicate she really cared about others so I'm sure it's a loss to Gloucester as well as to her family.

Emmy said they were leaving for Ireland in a couple of days. I don't remember where in Ireland they said they were going. I had thought their trip was over the summer, so my memory clearly isn't working on this one! Just as an aside, can you imagine Uncle Tim's reaction to the uproar over the crash Sandra Bullock's vehicle was involved in? I guess they are filming a movie that takes place in Alaska and are using Gloucester!

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Boys on the Beach


Here are the boys on the beach. We tried to catch up with the O'Briens, but it did not work out. Maybe next year.
Now it is time for baseball .... Yeah!