BAM! Another door is closed. Remember John "Jack" Ryan who died of an accidental gunshot wound? Tim and Peter refer to him as Uncle Jack, so I will follow suit here. When Jack died, he left a wife Monica and two children, according to his obituary. I was curious what happened to them so I started researching them.
First of all, I had to find out the names for the children and found them in the 1940 census Monica Ryan and children Patrick and Sheila. Though I don't have Monica's death fully determined, I did find her son Patrick's obituary.
Handsome guy. The obituary also contains a valuable clue for his sister Sheila, who apparently married a Morrison. Sadly, he suffered from Alzheimer's Disease-- a particular insult considering that his childhood was likely difficult after his father's accidental death. I find it interesting that Patricks are few and far between in our Ryan family.
On another note, perhaps you've heard that Amy "said Yes to the dress"!
I took a trip to Erie yesterday so that she could show me the dress
she'd fallen in love with. Unfortunately, the shop sample of this dress
had been sold so Amy couldn't model it for me. She had pictures from a
previous visit and it is quite beautiful. But the confirming fact for
me was that she loved it so the dress has been ordered. It was much
more emotional than I was expecting.
The emotions were on high alert after we found some evidence in our
house that Ron Henry had stopped by for a visit recently. He had a
habit of moving the toilet paper around in the downstairs bathroom, which
kind of drove me nuts. When he died, I thought "Well, at least I won't
have to go move the toilet paper back any more." The night before I
went to Erie, the toilet paper roll had been moved to Ron's favorite
spot. We believe it's a message from Ron. He would have belly laughed
himself silly to hear me tell the story of driving out to Erie to find
my hung over daughter ready to go to the bridal store to try on a dress
that wasn't there. And then paying for it. Cue the emotions.
Tuesday, September 30, 2014
Tuesday, September 23, 2014
Update from the Homefront
I haven't done much genealogy lately, which has apparently impacted my creativity. I've been fretting and worrying about the blog so I guess I'll just offer some updates and hope for the best in the near future.
First of all, our little Shea went missing over a month ago and we now believe she's using the Litter Box in the Sky. She was Jim's cat and was especially fond of him. She would be very antsy when he was gone and quite contented in his lap every night. She was a birthday gift to Jim and he named her appropriately. Now both his favorite Sheas are gone.
I spent some quality time with the Kilmurray children recently, which was a blast for me. We went over to Austin Lincoln (it's been AGES since I've been there) and explored on foot with our cameras nearby. I came home with about 700 pictures and videos taken by Delaney and Breyen. Here are a couple:
We had a great day. I was also able to get to Breyen's football game this week. Go B-Man!
I also had a couple of interesting "Pay it Forward" experiences in the last few weeks. There's a Facebook initiative to Pay it Forward that I decided to try and it was an interesting exercise. You promise to send off a little token of remembrance to the Facebook friends that agree to give it a try. Some of my Facebook friends that agreed are people I know well and see often. A couple are not and those were the ones I found to be intriguing. I took the opportunity to stop and think of these people carefully in ways I don't generally. I found little tokens to send off that I think will appeal to their interests and personalities. No pressure (like with Christmas) and no timeline (ditto). I liked taking time to think of those that don't often come right to mind. Then these friends are supposed to offer the same out to their Facebook friends. It's a neat way to spread a little kindness.
The other experience took a bit longer to come to fruition. Quite a while ago, I bought a small bunch of ephemera at an auction that included personal items like letters and pictures. I had promised myself that someday I would reunite such memorabilia to remaining family members, and these items seemed to be good candidates. I carefully reviewed the items, taking note of names and dates then did some research to see if I could find this family online. It seemed there were 2-3 potential family members with tress on Ancestry.com for whom this might be valuable material. I wasn't sure how to proceed picking the family to whom I would offer these items first so I responded in the time honored tradition of putting it away to think about later.
Several months later ( and within the time since the last blog post), I renewed these efforts and decided to select the family tree that seemed to be best documented. I contacted the tree owner to offer to send the items along and apparently picked absolutely the correct person. The items seem to belong to her grandfather. This woman believes she is the only living descendant of this man and she was very pleased to agree to accept the items. So off they went! I know how happy I would be and was glad to be able to bring that joy to someone else.
Perhaps the good karma will open the creative gates for me in the near future. Thanks for hanging in here with the blog.
First of all, our little Shea went missing over a month ago and we now believe she's using the Litter Box in the Sky. She was Jim's cat and was especially fond of him. She would be very antsy when he was gone and quite contented in his lap every night. She was a birthday gift to Jim and he named her appropriately. Now both his favorite Sheas are gone.
I spent some quality time with the Kilmurray children recently, which was a blast for me. We went over to Austin Lincoln (it's been AGES since I've been there) and explored on foot with our cameras nearby. I came home with about 700 pictures and videos taken by Delaney and Breyen. Here are a couple:
We had a great day. I was also able to get to Breyen's football game this week. Go B-Man!
I also had a couple of interesting "Pay it Forward" experiences in the last few weeks. There's a Facebook initiative to Pay it Forward that I decided to try and it was an interesting exercise. You promise to send off a little token of remembrance to the Facebook friends that agree to give it a try. Some of my Facebook friends that agreed are people I know well and see often. A couple are not and those were the ones I found to be intriguing. I took the opportunity to stop and think of these people carefully in ways I don't generally. I found little tokens to send off that I think will appeal to their interests and personalities. No pressure (like with Christmas) and no timeline (ditto). I liked taking time to think of those that don't often come right to mind. Then these friends are supposed to offer the same out to their Facebook friends. It's a neat way to spread a little kindness.
The other experience took a bit longer to come to fruition. Quite a while ago, I bought a small bunch of ephemera at an auction that included personal items like letters and pictures. I had promised myself that someday I would reunite such memorabilia to remaining family members, and these items seemed to be good candidates. I carefully reviewed the items, taking note of names and dates then did some research to see if I could find this family online. It seemed there were 2-3 potential family members with tress on Ancestry.com for whom this might be valuable material. I wasn't sure how to proceed picking the family to whom I would offer these items first so I responded in the time honored tradition of putting it away to think about later.
Several months later ( and within the time since the last blog post), I renewed these efforts and decided to select the family tree that seemed to be best documented. I contacted the tree owner to offer to send the items along and apparently picked absolutely the correct person. The items seem to belong to her grandfather. This woman believes she is the only living descendant of this man and she was very pleased to agree to accept the items. So off they went! I know how happy I would be and was glad to be able to bring that joy to someone else.
Perhaps the good karma will open the creative gates for me in the near future. Thanks for hanging in here with the blog.
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