Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Update from the Homefront

I haven't done much genealogy lately, which has apparently impacted my creativity.  I've been fretting and worrying about the blog so I guess I'll just offer some updates and hope for the best in the near future.


First of all, our little Shea went missing over a month ago and we now believe she's using the Litter Box in the Sky.  She was Jim's cat and was especially fond of him.  She would be very antsy when he was gone and quite contented in his lap every night.  She was a birthday gift to Jim and he named her appropriately.  Now both his favorite Sheas are gone.



I spent some quality time with the Kilmurray children recently, which was a blast for me.  We went over to Austin Lincoln (it's been AGES since I've been there) and explored on foot with our cameras nearby.  I came home with about 700 pictures and videos taken by Delaney and Breyen.  Here are a couple:


We had a great day.  I was also able to get to Breyen's football game this week.  Go B-Man!

 I also had a couple of interesting "Pay it Forward" experiences in the last few weeks.  There's a Facebook initiative to Pay it Forward that I decided to try and it was an interesting exercise.  You promise to send off a little token of remembrance to the Facebook friends that agree to give it a try.  Some of my Facebook friends that agreed are people I know well and see often.  A couple are not and those were the ones I found to be intriguing.  I took the opportunity to stop and think of these people carefully in ways I don't generally.  I found little tokens to send off that I think will appeal to their interests and personalities.  No pressure (like with Christmas) and no timeline (ditto).  I liked taking time to think of those that don't often come right to mind.  Then these friends are supposed to offer the same out to their Facebook friends.  It's a neat way to spread a little kindness.

The other experience took a bit longer to come to fruition.  Quite a while ago, I bought a small bunch of ephemera  at an auction that included personal items like letters and pictures.  I had promised myself that someday I would reunite such memorabilia to remaining family members, and these items seemed to be good candidates.  I carefully reviewed the items, taking note of names and dates then did some research to see if I could find this family online.  It seemed there were 2-3 potential family members with tress on Ancestry.com for whom this might be valuable material.  I wasn't sure how to proceed picking the family to whom I would offer these items first so I responded in the time honored tradition of putting it away to think about later.

Several months later ( and within the time since the last blog post), I renewed these efforts and decided to select the family tree that seemed to be best documented.  I contacted the tree owner to offer to send the items along and apparently picked absolutely the correct person.  The items seem to belong to her grandfather.  This woman believes she is the only living descendant of this man and she was very pleased to agree to accept the items.  So off they went!  I know how happy I would be and was glad to be able to bring that joy to someone else.

Perhaps the good karma will open the creative gates for me in the near future.  Thanks for hanging in here with the blog.

2 comments:

CHRIS said...

Very sorry tohear of the loss os Shea.

PaulaO said...

Sweet Shea! I'm sorry too. Espeially for Jim, that is tough.

I love that you have done these "Pay it Forward" things! So thoughtful. I am not good at those type of things. I admire people who can think of good, thoughtful trinkets to make someone's day better! I bet it made you feel good too.

Hope it hwlps get the creative juices flowing! I love this blog!