Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Dennison Road






I actually remember visiting the Dennison Road house must be before we moved in but maybe after Mom and Dad bought it. Nanny and Weenie were there—I think it was their first visit to the house. I remember there was covered-up furniture sitting around. That was a little spooky to me. I do not really know when we moved there but I have pictures of Chris and I from the house on Oliver Street but not Kathy so I’ll guess it might have been around ’58-’59.

The Dennison Road property was really cool for several reasons: the barn, the guest house, the woods, the field,the gorge, the apple trees (picking apples off the ground for a nickel each to make way for lawn mowing).

The barn must have been a lot cooler than I took advantage of. We used it for storage of bicyles and other outdoor stuff. The outside was covered in this sand paper shingles that would burn if you scraped your skin against them. I remember there were windows in it so it was built with care. I wonder what it was used for originally—I don’t have the feeling the property was a farm but maybe it was.

The guest house was lots and lots of fun. There was a bed in there and the sewing machine. There was a connecting door to the garage and another attached room on the backside that we used for storage. There’d be holes in the plaster board in that storage area big enough to use as a doorway—and Dad hated that. I clearly remember playing in that guest house quite often but don’t have a recollection of what that back storage area was used for exactly.

One time, I found a Barbie doll in the drawer of the sewing machine and thought it must have appeared by magic. I think she had new clothes on and I kind of remember thinking she’d been lost but now whe was found. I have no idea what was going on with that. It did occur to me that maybe Mom was making new clothes for the Barbie –but can you even imagine that?? That’s not likely!!

We had the swing set and sand box in the area between the woods and the barn near the guest house. One apple tree was behind the barn on the edge of the field and I think there was another in the same line between the house and the barn.. Dad grew his flowers in a garden under the bedroom window (the girls room with Paula, Kathy and I) facing out to the field.

There were flowering bushes along the front part of the house facing the road. I still would like to have bushes like those at my own house. White flowers. There were a couple of trees along the side of the road in front of the house and a corn field directly across the road.

That window in the living room facing the road was a good size I think. Full length drapes covered them. One time I recall there was a very bad (loud) thunderstorm with lots of lightning. Mom had us huddled up in the middle of the floor in the living room for safety I believe. I think I remember Dad was at work at the country club. It seems like it was nighttime because it was dark but maybe it was a power outage.

There was a door in the living room out to the porch. That was a nice porch. I think we had the freezer out there. A sidewalk led up to it from the driveway. There was a sign at the end of the sidewalk—must have had our name on it.

The master bedroom was off the living room and there was a nice big closet the whole length of the room. There was an archway between the living room and the dining room. That’s where the photographer set up that group picture of us in those red and white checked tops and shorts. The bathroom was SMALL teeny tiny and off the dining room.

We would always it in the same places for meals, Mom at the end and to my left. Sitting at the table was where I first noticed something strange in how Mom’s belly was growing—must have been Judy. Couldn’t put anything past this 9 year old!!

The other entry on the same wall as the bathroom was into the den—which became Mary Jane’s room. I think I remember a bookcase in there and maybe the desk was in there too. The stairs up to the attic were in that room.

Chris’ room was at the base of those stairs to the immediate left and the girls room right in front of those stairs. A closet connected those rooms. Judy’s crib was in Chris’ room as well as a door to the outside that we didn’t ever use.

The kitchen was also off the dining room. It must have been kind of narrow—stove, washing machine and dryer on one side—sink and refrigerator on the other. I remember Mom pre-heating the oven (electric) and cooking a mouse. Oh the STINK of burning fur! The phone was also in the kitchen..

The main entrance was off the patio into a mud room which led into the kitchen. The cellar stairs were right there on the left. The patio was concrete. Milk in glass gallon containers would be delivered there and they would break but good when dropped on that concrete. There was wrought iron (probably not really wrought iron but metal) fence on that patio. I grew my 4H gourds at the base of that fence facing the barn.

I don’t remember that much about the cellar but I didn’t like going down there too much. We stored the dog food in that stairwell. I don’t remember much about the attic either but since it was a ranch style house, it couldn’t have been very much of anything.

There were all kinds of cool play areas outside. There were a couple of pretty big evergreens not too far from the house near the driveway outside the dining room window. On the other side of the driveway near the road, there was a small hill to roll down. There was a path in that woods but I don’t think we ventured too far into those away from the house. One time I fell down a little hill in those woods off that path and got a big old scrape on my back. I most definitely tried to hide that from Mom.

The woods in the back in where we would go off and explore. I remember a big tree fallen down and extending out over the gorge. We’d find stuff back there—Chris found some money I think and Kathy found some gum or candy or something. We went to the base of the gorge and followed the creek to Shirley’s house one time. (Shirley the babysitter was a student of Dad’s—I actually found her on the internet through the Silver Creek website –but Dad taught in Forestville ?!?!?)

There was a woman up the road (Mrs. Hamburg?) who could cut hair so we’d walk up to her house sometimes. When we took that trek in the winter, we’d take great delight in jumping into the snow piled at the roadside to stay out of the way of traffic. Some lady with a zillion cats lived across the road. Hazletons just down a little ways. For some reason Hazeltons went to Forestville and we went to Silver Creek even though we were actually a tad closer to the opposite schools.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Welcome Delaney!

Welcome to our new little branch on the family tree: Delaney MJ Kilmurray born Feb 28. For the "kids" (Kevin, Bill, Tim, Amy, Ryan, Ryan and Matthew) Delaney and Sophie are 1st cousins once removed (along with Aiden and Breyen). For the siblings, they are our grand nieces. And there's your genealogy lesson for the week.

Hopefully we will see some pictures soon!

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Disney really is magical!



















We had a great time, but are completely exhausted. I am not really sure who had a better time, the boys or me!
We did two days at Universal including seeing Blue Man Group (that was great) and one day each at each of the Disney Parks.

We all decided that our favorite park was Hollywood studios (formerly known as MGM). The boys both loved the Rock n Roller Coaster, but my favorite was the Tower of Terror.



Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Give to Each Other and God Will Bless You


I thought you might enjoy a transcription of this letter from Weenie, probably written April 1964.

Dear "Angels":

Happy to hear you are well again. it was nice that you shared the measles. Give to each other and God will bless you.


If I can get Nanny off her fanny we will be over Friday to have a piece of Mary Jane's birthday cake. It seems ages since I have seen you.


Looks as though my recovery will coincide with the arrival of warm weather. That will be a break as I won't get behind schedule with my flower planting and lawn care.


Enclosed is a check for Patti Anne to get her First Communion dress. Have Mommy get the best and not worry about the price. Nanny and Wee Wee will be very proud of you, Patti Anne.


See you Friday. Love "Wee Wee".


Friday, February 15, 2008

Valentine's Day with Sophie!



Hope everyone had a nice Valentine's Day. I spent the day with Sophie at their new house in Binghamton. Bill had physical therapy in Norwich, so I went to help out and offered to watch Sophie while Bill and Amanda went out for dinner. We had a great time! She is so happy most of the time. Timmy was there and serenaded us with his new guitar playing skills. It was a good day.

Sunday, February 10, 2008

Memories of Gloucester


First of all, Happy Birthday Ryan Patrick. I hope you guys have a great time on your trip next week.


As promised, here's what I remember about Gloucester. Add your own comment. The picture is in the backyard on Haskell Street I believe from the trip Chris and I took alone. It says 1966 on the back so it was probably the summer we were 8 and 9 years old.


I remember

Flying (must have been from Buffalo to Boston) with Chris –just the two of us about 9 and 10 years old. This was a very big deal. I recall stopping in Albany and fussing at Chris to neaten up because this was the state capitol and there might be important people boarding. I remember getting wings and I think a pack of playing cards on the airplane. Funny I don’t really remember any details about Mom and Dad taking us to the airport or being picked up by anyone.

For this trip, being drilled about memorizing the address 34 Haskell Street. At some point it was changed to 24 Haskell Street as I discovered much later when visiting as an adult. Also I think it was on this trip that Chris went out fishing with Grampie (Paul M. Ryan Senior) and I went fishing with the neighbors. I caught a fish and Chris did not. We all got a chuckle out of that.

I remember going to the beach and finding starfish. Nanny (Catherine Pierce Ryan) wasn’t overly thrilled because she said they would stink. I laid my treasures out on the cellar doors to dry out. The cellar doors were those kind that extended in a slant from the house and you opened it up kind of like a barn door. I think of them as tornado protection probably from “The Wizard of Oz” farm house. You don’t enter the cellar directly from the inside, but from the outside of the house through these doors down close to the ground.

I remember Aunt June and Aunt somebody else living in a house directly behind Nanny and Grampie’s. One of these women had extraordinarily long fingernails. They seemed kind of exotic these two. I think I remember a pretty fancy beehive upsweep hairstyle on one of them. Clearly bleached hair if I remember right. They weren’t rightfully aunts by blood but were related in some way.

Nanny was a cook at the golf course sometimes when we visited. I believe she was also a school lunch lady, but that wouldn’t have been when we were there mostly because it would have been off school time. I remember that she did go to the golf course sometimes and I think I remember going there one time to the kitchen in the clubhouse. It was just up and around the corner.

She had a great pantry in her kitchen. She would give me dinner mints to ease the stomach ache I would get from eating too fast. I loved those pillow mints and they always make me think of her.. The kitchen was in the back part of the house. There was a dining room kind of in the middle and opposite a parlor type of room. I remember a beautiful Tiffany style lamp hanging in the dining room. There was a living room area just inside the front door. The stairs were right by the front door also and I can’t really remember the rooms up there too well. I do remember Judy in a crib in one of those rooms making a mess just before Tim’s wedding. What a mess and I really felt for Mom, even at however old I was then (probably about 12) that her youngest was making this mess in her mother-in-law’s house.

Grampie seemed kind of eccentric to us. Little did we realize he came by it honestly. It must have been on the trip that Chris and I took alone together that Chris would tell me that Grampie had taken him out drinking and what-not with him sometimes. It was a big secret to keep from Mom. I’m betting it was an open secret and drove Nanny crazy.

I recall some kind of bookmobile up on the corner near their house.

I remember going to Good Harbor Beach. We must have walked from the house, around the corner and past the golf course down the hill to the beach. I remember walking across a footbridge and there being lots of sand—very flat and open from the bridge to the water.